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Not all lies are loud. Not all lies intend to harm. Some sound like “Sure, no problem” when your whole body wants to say “no”. Some look like a polite smile when you disagree. Some happen when you stay quiet just to keep the peace. We don’t always lie
A job hunt can feel like a grind. You scroll through listings. You polish your résumé. You tweak your cover letter for the hundredth time. You know what to do. You know how to present yourself. And still, the process feels tiring. Not just because it is competitive or repetitive.
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You’ve found a job that looks good on paper. The title sounds right. The salary is decent. The benefits are solid. Everyone you trust you thinks it’s a smart move. So why does it still feel uncertain? Why are you hesitating? Why do you keep second-guessing a decision
You are standing at a crossroads. A new job. A big move. A relationship shift. A blank page. Every option seems possible, but none feel clear. You go back and forth. You make a list. You gather opinions. You weigh the pros and cons again. And still, something feels off.
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There is a common misconception that once you start living in alignment with your values, everything will automatically feel easier. That clarity will bring instant comfort. That confidence will follow quickly. That the hard parts will magically fall away. But that is not always how it works. Living your values
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We’re taught from an early age that being liked is important. Praise feels good. Approval feels safe. And when people respond positively to you, it can seem like a sign that you’re doing something right. But here is the problem: Being liked and being aligned are not the
Impostor syndrome can be hard to name, but the feeling is probably familiar to you. You land the job, get the opportunity, or walk into a room you worked hard to reach, and instead of confidence, you feel exposed. You think, “I don’t belong here.” You worry that someone
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Impostor syndrome can be framed as a personal flaw, especially by ourselves. You doubt your abilities and convince yourself that you’re not good enough. This story catastrophizes in your own mind because you lack confidence. You tell yourself that you need to believe in yourself more. You need to
You are standing at a crossroads. A job. A move. A relationship shift. A blank page. Each option makes sense on paper. None of them feel like a full yes. This is where decision fatigue sets in. You look for pros and cons, you gather advice, and you try to
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Most of us have felt it. That quiet tension between what the world expects and what actually feels right inside. Maybe the world tells you to keep climbing the ladder, but what you really want is rest. Maybe tradition says you should follow a certain path, but you value your
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For some people, rest is not easy. It can bring up feelings of discomfort, guilt, or a sense of falling behind. Even when you know you need to slow down, something pushes you to keep going. That something is often a value, and it might be trying to protect something
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You may be aware that setting boundaries is important. But knowing you need them is different from knowing how to create them. For many, the hardest part is not the boundary itself, it is the guilt that comes with it. We can worry that we are letting people down or